If I don't make a list we would arrive and spend one day shopping for all the stuff I forgot to pack. I list things out for myself and all the kids. Hubs is on his own. I'm also not a good packer (in spite of my lists) and never have exactly what I want to wear when I get someplace. So I try to list my things in terms of outfits for different outings. It sounds super organized and anal, but it's just basic chaos management.
I am one of those geeky husbands with the Excel spreadsheet as well. !http://www.travelmuse.com/community/images/emoticons/happy.gif|alt=:)|class=jive-emoticon|src=http://www.travelmuse.com/community/images/emoticons/happy.gif|border=0!
I must say it works well with a general list and then some "theme sections" for more specific gear catered to activities like camping, skiing, condos, etc.
I print it the day before my trip and check line items off as I pack them or decide I'll do without.
The key element here is to have a feedback loop!! If you're on your trip and you're like "Doh! I forgot X", you need to make sure you make a note to add it to the spreadsheet when you're back home before the next trip. (or it doesn't work so well :o)
My husband has a template of his own that he designed in Excel.
Anal much?
I used to make fun of him until we had a child and then I realized the power of the list. Mine isn't as fancy - just notebook paper - but it's a start!